There are WAY TOO MANY conditions placed on your criteria for who you will allow yourself to be friends with. Personally I do not post any more personal info or pics on my space because of harassments and threats which came to me from persons who visited my space, picked up on my info, interests and such and exploited them to make threats incorporating my personal interests. As well, exploiting the fact hat I had posted a personal pic for my icon. The Internet, remember, is not the safest place in the world. And you are calling your space a"girls club" Well, now that I see your many requirements for friendship I suppose that my removal of most personal things from my space is why you never accepted the friend request I had sent. (What I do NOT understand is why you never communicated back to me directly about your needs, or simply declined the request.) Women have enough roles to fulfill placed upon them for everyone else, don't you think?! Give yourself and others a break from it, lighten up. The awesome Holy Spirit sends people your way and you turn them away based on your ego's needs. That is not a very understanding practice. It's one thing to have your personal preferences and standards for friendship, even on the Internet, it is quite another to make people jump through hoops just to please and satisfy yourself. Have A Nice Day Anyway!
hummm, not to sure.. if ya let one in they all come in.. even if its is our dear friend.. ( of course we could make him dress up like a woman.. give him a new name.. put makeup on him.. might be fun,.. "smile" one thing that should happen though that seems only fair.. he should have to jog around the blog in a pair of heels.. for his tresspassing.. "smile"